We Can Help! Don’t be frustrated by the difficulty of connecting, discipling and activating men. MEN ARE DIFFERENT! The reason most churches are exhausted in their efforts is they are using methods created for ministries in other areas of the church. Or, maybe these same methods worked in the past and they are expecting the same results in reaching men today. We wouldn’t use a fly rod to hunt for deer nor should we use Women’s Ministry, Youth Ministry or Children’s Ministry tactics to reach men.